Las Cuatro Etapas del Perdón:
1. Desistir - Dejarlo en paz, no para pasarlo por alto, sino para volverse ágil y fuerte a fin de desapegarse de la situación.
2. Resistir - Abstenerse de castigar. Tener paciencia, afrontar, canalizar las emociones. Practicar la generosidad.
3. Olvidar - Apartarse del recuerdo, rehusarse a permanecer en el asunto. Olvidar es un empeño activo, no pasivo. El olvido consciente significa abandonar voluntariamente la práctica de obsesionarse, tomar distancia y perderlo de vista intencionalmente, sin mirar atrás, viviendo así en un nuevo paisaje, creando una nueva vida y nuevas experiencias en que pensar en lugar de las antiguas.
4. Perdonar - Abandonar la deuda. Es una decisión consciente de dejar de albergar resentimientos, lo cual incluye renunciar a la determinación de desquitarse
miércoles, 10 de noviembre de 2010
Bläter
No sé si se escribe así la palabra o blätter pero el caso es que esta palabra gerBmánica, que significa "hojas" me llevó el otro día a... pensé "hojas" pero "hojas" en castellano, y la asocié con la palabra inglesa del mismo significado,o más bien, el mismo término y la palabra inglesa de igual sonido e igual traducción en castellano "blade" hoja, pero hoja de una espada, esto me llevó a la palabra "blood" que ahora, acertadamente, acabo de comprobar que tiene el mismo significado o raíz "sprout" , aquello que surge o mana, en germánico antiguo, me queda por comprobar el étimo de "blade"
blade O.E. blæd "a leaf," but also "a leaf-like part" (of spade, oar, etc.), from P.Gmc. *bladaz (cf. O.Fris. bled "leaf," Ger. blatt, O.N. blað), from PIE *bhle-to-, suffixed form (p.p.) of *bhel- (3) "to thrive, bloom," possibly identical with *bhel- (2) "to blow, swell" (see bole). Extended in M.E. to shoulders (c.1300) and swords (early 14c.). The modern use in reference to grass may be a M.E. revival, by influence of O.Fr. bled "corn, wheat" (11c., perhaps from Germanic). The cognate in Ger., blatt, is the general word for "leaf;" laub is used collectively as "foliage." O.N. blað was used in reference to herbs and plants, lauf in reference to trees. This might have been the original distinction in O.E., too.
blood O.E. blod, from P.Gmc. *blodam (cf. O.Fris. blod, O.N. bloð, M.Du. bloet, O.H.G. bluot, Ger. Blut, Goth. bloþ), from PIE *bhlo-to-, perhaps meaning "to swell, gush, spurt," or "that which bursts out" (cf. Goth. bloþ "blood," bloma "flower"), in which case it wo7uld be from suffixed form of *bhle-, extended form of *bhel- "to thrive, bloom" (see bole). There seems to have been an avoidance in Germanic, perhaps from taboo, of other PIE words for "blood," such as *esen- (cf. poetic Gk. ear, O.Latin aser, Skt. asrk, Hittite eshar); also *krew-, which seems to have had a sense of "blood outside the body, gore from a wound" (cf. L. cruour "blood from a wound," Gk. kreas "meat"), which came to mean simply "blood" in the Balto-Slavic group and some other languages. Inheritance and relationship senses (also found in L. sanguis, Gk. haima) emerged in English by mid-13c. As the seat of passions, it is recorded from c.1300. Slang meaning "hot spark, a man of fire" [Johnson] is from 1560s. Blood money is from 1530s.
Online etymology dictionary
I only wish there was an Spanish Online Etymology dictionary
"Hoja"? del Lat folium, bastante ..pa...
Es curioso que blood y bloom ....
foliage, folium, blade, bloom, blossom? , blade, ho...luego tenemos brote y "brotar". Bröt??
bread (n.)
O.E. bread "bit, crumb, morsel; bread," cognate with O.N. brauð, Dan. brød, O.Fris. brad, M.Du. brot, Du. brood, Ger. Brot). According to one theory [Watkins, etc.] from from P.Gmc. *brautham, which would be from the root of brew and refer to the leavening. But OED argues at length for the basic sense being not "cooked food" but "piece of food," and the O.E. word deriving from a P.Gmc. *braudsmon- "fragments, bits" (cf. O.H.G. brosma "crumb," O.E. breotan "to break in pieces") and being related to the root of break. It cites Slovenian kruh "bread," lit. "a piece." Either way, by c.1200 it had replaced the usual O.E. word for "bread," which was hlaf (see loaf). Slang meaning "money" dates from 1940s, but cf. breadwinner. Bread-and-butter in the figurative sense of "basic needs" is from 1732. Bread and circuses (1914) is from Latin, in reference to food and entertainment provided by governments to keep the populace happy. "Duas tantum res anxius optat, Panem et circenses"
No soy etimóloga pero hay relación entre "swell" el significado de la raíz y el significado del pan, y también, entre "loaf" y leaf, leavening, creo que me estoy....
y ya tenemos LEVADURA/ LEAF, con el mismo origen y todo el origen de palabras derivadas levantar, lift, elevar, todas relacionadas con el significado original de swell
Breath"? en el sentido de que breath originariamente significava olor, exalación, vapor que salía de algo y esto está relacionado con "swell" surgir, crecer, "sweat?"
breath
O.E. bræð "odor, scent, stink, exhalation, vapor" (O.E. word for "air exhaled from the lungs" was æðm), from P.Gmc. *bræthaz "smell, exhalation" (cf. O.H.G. bradam, Ger. Brodem "breath, steam"), from PIE base *gwhre- "to breathe, smell
¿Porqué en ..siempre se habla de unleavened bread?"
blade O.E. blæd "a leaf," but also "a leaf-like part" (of spade, oar, etc.), from P.Gmc. *bladaz (cf. O.Fris. bled "leaf," Ger. blatt, O.N. blað), from PIE *bhle-to-, suffixed form (p.p.) of *bhel- (3) "to thrive, bloom," possibly identical with *bhel- (2) "to blow, swell" (see bole). Extended in M.E. to shoulders (c.1300) and swords (early 14c.). The modern use in reference to grass may be a M.E. revival, by influence of O.Fr. bled "corn, wheat" (11c., perhaps from Germanic). The cognate in Ger., blatt, is the general word for "leaf;" laub is used collectively as "foliage." O.N. blað was used in reference to herbs and plants, lauf in reference to trees. This might have been the original distinction in O.E., too.
blood O.E. blod, from P.Gmc. *blodam (cf. O.Fris. blod, O.N. bloð, M.Du. bloet, O.H.G. bluot, Ger. Blut, Goth. bloþ), from PIE *bhlo-to-, perhaps meaning "to swell, gush, spurt," or "that which bursts out" (cf. Goth. bloþ "blood," bloma "flower"), in which case it wo7uld be from suffixed form of *bhle-, extended form of *bhel- "to thrive, bloom" (see bole). There seems to have been an avoidance in Germanic, perhaps from taboo, of other PIE words for "blood," such as *esen- (cf. poetic Gk. ear, O.Latin aser, Skt. asrk, Hittite eshar); also *krew-, which seems to have had a sense of "blood outside the body, gore from a wound" (cf. L. cruour "blood from a wound," Gk. kreas "meat"), which came to mean simply "blood" in the Balto-Slavic group and some other languages. Inheritance and relationship senses (also found in L. sanguis, Gk. haima) emerged in English by mid-13c. As the seat of passions, it is recorded from c.1300. Slang meaning "hot spark, a man of fire" [Johnson] is from 1560s. Blood money is from 1530s.
Online etymology dictionary
I only wish there was an Spanish Online Etymology dictionary
"Hoja"? del Lat folium, bastante ..pa...
Es curioso que blood y bloom ....
foliage, folium, blade, bloom, blossom? , blade, ho...luego tenemos brote y "brotar". Bröt??
bread (n.)
O.E. bread "bit, crumb, morsel; bread," cognate with O.N. brauð, Dan. brød, O.Fris. brad, M.Du. brot, Du. brood, Ger. Brot). According to one theory [Watkins, etc.] from from P.Gmc. *brautham, which would be from the root of brew and refer to the leavening. But OED argues at length for the basic sense being not "cooked food" but "piece of food," and the O.E. word deriving from a P.Gmc. *braudsmon- "fragments, bits" (cf. O.H.G. brosma "crumb," O.E. breotan "to break in pieces") and being related to the root of break. It cites Slovenian kruh "bread," lit. "a piece." Either way, by c.1200 it had replaced the usual O.E. word for "bread," which was hlaf (see loaf). Slang meaning "money" dates from 1940s, but cf. breadwinner. Bread-and-butter in the figurative sense of "basic needs" is from 1732. Bread and circuses (1914) is from Latin, in reference to food and entertainment provided by governments to keep the populace happy. "Duas tantum res anxius optat, Panem et circenses"
No soy etimóloga pero hay relación entre "swell" el significado de la raíz y el significado del pan, y también, entre "loaf" y leaf, leavening, creo que me estoy....
y ya tenemos LEVADURA/ LEAF, con el mismo origen y todo el origen de palabras derivadas levantar, lift, elevar, todas relacionadas con el significado original de swell
Breath"? en el sentido de que breath originariamente significava olor, exalación, vapor que salía de algo y esto está relacionado con "swell" surgir, crecer, "sweat?"
breath
O.E. bræð "odor, scent, stink, exhalation, vapor" (O.E. word for "air exhaled from the lungs" was æðm), from P.Gmc. *bræthaz "smell, exhalation" (cf. O.H.G. bradam, Ger. Brodem "breath, steam"), from PIE base *gwhre- "to breathe, smell
¿Porqué en ..siempre se habla de unleavened bread?"
martes, 9 de noviembre de 2010
Único Testigo
"Dentro de nuestra cultura,... la educación conduce con demasiada frecuencia a la eliminación de la espontaneidad...El niño empieza de este modo a eliminar la expresión de sus sentimientos y con el tiempo llega a eliminarlos del todo. Juntamente con esto se le enseña a no reparar en la hostilidad y falta de sinceridad de los demás; algunas veces esto no resulta tan fácil, puesto que los niños se hayan dotados de una cierta capacidad para advertir en los demás tales cualidades negativas, sin dejarse engañar fácilmente por las palabras, tal y como ocurre, generalmente entre los adultos. Ellos siguen sintiendo aversión hacia alguien "sin razón alguna aparente...Muy pronto esta reacción es desaprobada (esto es mío, caso de dále un besito a tu hermano y haced las paces): y no pasará demasiado tiempo antes de que el niño alcance la "madurez" del adulto medio y pierda la capacidad de discriminar entre una persona decente y ...hasta tanto este último no haya cometido algún acto manifiesto.
Eric Fromm: "El miedo a...."
Eric Fromm: "El miedo a...."
lunes, 8 de noviembre de 2010
Rilke
Bangnis
Im welken Walde ist ein Vogelruf,
der sinnlos scheint in diesem welken Walde.
Und dennoch ruht der runde Vogelruf
in dieser Weile, die ihn schuf,
breit wie ein Himmel auf dem welken Walde.
Gefügig räumt sich alles in den Schrei:
Das ganze Land scheint lautlos drin zu liegen,
der große Wind scheint sich hineinzuschmiegen,
und die Minute, welche weiter will,
ist bleich und still, als ob sie Dinge wüßte,
an denen jeder sterben müßte,
aus ihm herausgestiegen.
(c. 1903) Anxiousness
In the faded forest sounds the call of a bird,
which seems so meaningless in this faded forest.
And yet the resonant call of the bird rests
in this moment which brought it forth,
as wide as the heavens above the faded forest.
Docilely, everything empties itself into the cry:
The entire countryside seems silently there,
the immense wind seems nestled inside,
and the minute, that wishes to move on,
is ashen and quiet, as if it knew things
that, in order for them to rise out of him,
a man would first have to die.
http://picture-poems.com/rilke/features/braidedstream.html
Im welken Walde ist ein Vogelruf,
der sinnlos scheint in diesem welken Walde.
Und dennoch ruht der runde Vogelruf
in dieser Weile, die ihn schuf,
breit wie ein Himmel auf dem welken Walde.
Gefügig räumt sich alles in den Schrei:
Das ganze Land scheint lautlos drin zu liegen,
der große Wind scheint sich hineinzuschmiegen,
und die Minute, welche weiter will,
ist bleich und still, als ob sie Dinge wüßte,
an denen jeder sterben müßte,
aus ihm herausgestiegen.
(c. 1903) Anxiousness
In the faded forest sounds the call of a bird,
which seems so meaningless in this faded forest.
And yet the resonant call of the bird rests
in this moment which brought it forth,
as wide as the heavens above the faded forest.
Docilely, everything empties itself into the cry:
The entire countryside seems silently there,
the immense wind seems nestled inside,
and the minute, that wishes to move on,
is ashen and quiet, as if it knew things
that, in order for them to rise out of him,
a man would first have to die.
http://picture-poems.com/rilke/features/braidedstream.html
jueves, 4 de noviembre de 2010
Y llegaron los días...
¿Sobre qué quiero escribir
Nada más
que sobre que estoy tranquila
nada más
que han llegado los días
más felices de mi vida
No era mi intención escribir un poema, sólo decir...
Nada más
que sobre que estoy tranquila
nada más
que han llegado los días
más felices de mi vida
No era mi intención escribir un poema, sólo decir...
domingo, 24 de octubre de 2010
La Luna
(La luna puede ser un globo)
¿Os imagináis tener la luna atada
a los pies de la cama?
Con un cordel
Y todas las noches
salir a navegar
(sin salir de la cama,
y en pijama)
por la noche estrellada
IV
viernes, 8 de octubre de 2010
Clearing
Today I have been cleaning my glass-ceramic stove. I have been cleaning the rings of my vitro. The vitro is made up of foufr rings. They were covered. By rests of burnt oil and burnt soot. As the four rings slowly emerged, I have imagined and felt the wonder an archaeologist must feel as he or she uncovers a small remainder of civilization which has been buried in the sand. As he slowly clears and wipes the rests hiding the remains of what was there before. It is the same wonder that a restaurer must feel as he uncovers the painting that was. As he slowly discovers one brush stroke and another, one colour, as the colours becames clear and bright. Or the same wonder a psychologist must feel as he clears the coverings of an old personality buried, left there, like a forsaken garden, for the many years in which wastage and wild plants have blurred the outlines of what was a carefully built structure.
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